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Psychology says parents' phone use may leave teens feeling ignored, insecure

By · Via Times of India · Published by Everything Blog

In short

Recent findings highlight that caregiver phone distraction correlates with elevated anxious and avoidant attachment patterns in adolescents. To measure these specific behaviors, investigators created the Device Attachment Interference Scale to quantify how screen usage interrupts parental attention and emotional availability. This relational friction often manifests through routine acts like glancing at notifications mid-conversation or checking devices when a child requests assistance. Prior literature similarly ties these parental interruptions to lower adolescent self-concept and increased behavioral difficulties.

Key points

  • Parental device interference promotes both anxious fears of rejection and avoidant emotio…: Parental device interference promotes both anxious fears of rejection and avoidant emotional distancing in teenagers.
  • Routine screen distractions mid-conversation disrupt crucial face-to-face interactions be…: Routine screen distractions mid-conversation disrupt crucial face-to-face interactions between caregivers and their children.
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A teenager is telling a parent about a difficult day at school. The parent is listening, or at least appears to be, while scrolling through messages. The conversation continues, but the teenager notices that their words are competing with a screen for attention. It may seem like a small, everyday moment. Yet repeated experiences of this kind could influence how young people feel about their relationships with their caregivers.

A study published in

Frontiers in Psychology in June 2026 examined this overlooked side of digital life. Titled “Mommy, do you love your phone more than me?”: Parental device use and the adolescent-caregiver attachment bond, the research explored whether teenagers who felt that their caregivers were frequently distracted by devices also reported greater attachment insecurity.

The researchers surveyed 600 adolescents between the ages of 12 and 17 in the United States. They found that higher levels of perceived device-related interference were associated with greater anxious and avoidant attachment towards both mother-like and father-like caregivers. The finding shifts an important part of the screen-time conversation. While parents often worry about how much…

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