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Sonia recalls Maneka's stormy 'Choti Bahu' years

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Sonia Gandhi's memoir, Belonging: A Journey of Love, traces the breakdown of family harmony following Sanjay Gandhi's marriage to the 18-year-old Maneka. The personal disagreements eventually spilled into national politics, particularly during the Emergency when Indira Gandhi felt Maneka was actively encouraging Sanjay's political overreach. After the Congress party suffered defeat in the 1978 elections, Rajiv openly confronted Sanjay over his impulsive choices, triggering an intervention by Maneka that drew sharp rebukes from Indira. The living situation subsequently deteriorated as Maneka allegedly retaliated by feeding disparaging stories to journalists, including false claims that Rajiv…

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  • Growing personal friction inside the household directly damaged the once-close fraternal…: Growing personal friction inside the household directly damaged the once-close fraternal bond between Rajiv and Sanjay Gandhi.
  • Maneka Gandhi's defense of Sanjay after the 1978 election loss deepened family resentment…: Maneka Gandhi's defense of Sanjay after the 1978 election loss deepened family resentment after she was challenged by Indira Gandhi.
  • Sarcastic remarks and targeted media leaks by Maneka intensified domestic hostility again…: Sarcastic remarks and targeted media leaks by Maneka intensified domestic hostility against Sonia and Rajiv Gandhi.

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The two married within a year, when Maneka turned 18, and she entered the Gandhi household as its “Choti Bahu”. But what began as a new chapter in the family's life gradually gave way to domestic tensions and political differences that eventually drove Maneka out of the household. Looking back, Sonia says the episode had all the makings of what would today be called a “reality show”.

“Maneka was…full of zest. It was refreshing at first to have a younger sister-in-law in the house. But slowly, the atmosphere began to change, with irritations cropping up in the home,” Sonia Gandhi writes.

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